When to Follow a Trend: Finding the Balance Between Style and Authenticity

In light of Spring quickly upon us and before we get bombarded with fresh fashion, new makeup looks and stylish home decor I wanted to highlight the topic of trends. In the ever-changing world of fashion and beauty, trends come and go at lightning speed. One season, everyone is wearing oversized blazers and chunky boots; the next, it’s all about minimalist lines and ballet flats or even how we decorate our living spaces. While trends can be exciting and fresh, not every trend is worth jumping on. Knowing when to follow a trend—and when to skip it—can help you build a wardrobe and aesthetic that feels authentic and timeless.

The Appeal of Trends: Why We Love Them

Trends often represent the mood of the moment(…remember glazed donut?) They bring an element of novelty to our routines and allow us to experiment with new looks. Following trends can be a fun way to express yourself, connect with current culture, and keep your style feeling fresh. However, blindly following every trend can lead to a wardrobe full of pieces that don’t feel like you. That’s why it’s important to approach trends thoughtfully.

When to Follow a Trend:

When It Aligns with Your Personal Style

This one is important..

The best trends to follow are the ones that naturally fit into your existing style. If you already love boho fashion, for example, a trend involving flowy dresses and earthy tones might be perfect for you. On the other hand, if you lean towards classic or minimalist looks, you might want to pass on that neon or maximalist trend.

When It Suits Your Lifestyle

Consider whether a trend is practical for your day-to-day life. If you spend your days running after kids or working in a professional setting, make sure the trend works for your reality. Trends like comfortable athleisure or chic flats might be more practical than sky-high heels or delicate, high-maintenance fabrics.

When You Genuinely Love It

Before buying into a trend, ask yourself if you would still love the item even if it weren’t trending. If the answer is yes, go for it. Authenticity is key—you should wear trends because they resonate with you, not because you feel pressured to fit in.

When It’s Affordable to Try

Some trends are worth experimenting with if they don’t require a big investment. Accessories, makeup, or smaller wardrobe pieces can be a low-risk way to play with trends. For instance, if bold colors are in but you’re not ready to commit, try a bright scarf or nail polish instead of a full wardrobe overhaul.

When It Adds Versatility

A trend that complements what you already own can add versatility to your wardrobe. Look for pieces that can be styled in multiple ways or paired with your existing clothes. Versatile trends often have more staying power and offer better value for your money.

When to Skip a Trend:

When It Feels Forced or Uncomfortable

If a trend doesn’t feel right on you, skip it. Style is about confidence, and if you’re not comfortable, it will show. You don’t need to wear something just because it’s popular—there are always other ways to stay current while staying true to yourself.

NOTE:

*Not every trend works for every body type or personal aesthetic. If a particular cut, color, or style doesn’t flatter you, it’s okay to take a pass. Focus instead on what makes you look and feel your best.

If your feeling impulsive…

• Test the Waters: Before committing, try a trend in small doses. A makeup look, an accessory, or a single piece of clothing can help you experiment without going all-in.

• Thrift and Borrow: Thrift stores and clothing swaps are great ways to try trends sustainably and affordably.

• Stay True to Yourself: Always prioritize what makes you feel comfortable and confident over what’s in style.

*Trends can be a fantastic way to keep your style fresh and inspired. The key is to treat them as options, not obligations. By being selective, you can enjoy trends that enhance your look while avoiding those that don’t serve you. Embrace what you love, skip what you don’t, and continue building a style that is uniquely yours.